A woman, “Patty,” who pursued my husband 10 years ago, attends church with me. During this time, my husband alerted me to her efforts, and it culminated with her answering her home’s front door in only a towel.

However, recently, I’ve suspected she is bringing me up during the church prayer request time when I am not in attendance. The pastor of our small church asks the congregation who they would like to pray for,

I remarked at the time, “I apologize for interrupting your naked time.” I also apologized to my husband for minimizing his concerns about Patty. Ten years later, I have gone out of my way to forgive her for the past,